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Jumping to conclusions: You make a negative interpretation even though there are no definite facts that convincingly support your conclusion.
Mind reading. You arbitrarily conclude that someone is acting negatively towards you, and you do not bother to check this out.
The fortune teller error. You anticipate that things will turn out badly, and you feel convinced that your prediction is already an established fact.
Magnification (Catastrophising) or minimisation: You exaggerate the importance of things, (such as your mistakes or someone else's achievements), or inappropriately shrink things until they appear tiny, (your own desirable qualities or others imperfections).
Emotional reasoning: You assume that negative emotions necessarily reflect the way things really are; "I feel it, therefore it must be true"
Should statements: You try to motivate yourself with shoulds and should nots, as if you had to be whipped and punished before you could be expected to do anything. "Musts" and "oughts" are also offenders. The emotional consequence is guilt. When you direct should statements towards others, you feel anger, frustration, and resentment.
Labeling and Mislabeling. This is an extreme form of over generalization. Instead of describing your error, you attach a negative label to yourself: 'I'm an idiot' When someone else’s behaviour irritates you, you attach a negative label toward them. ‘She’s a fool’. Mislabeling involves describing an event with language that is highly coloured and emotionally loaded.
Personalization: You see yourself as the cause of some negative external event which in fact you were not primarily responsible for.
Many people suffer unnecessarily with these distortions and false beliefs.
There is now a substantial body of evidence to show once you have been treated with hypnosis and cognitive behavioral therapy, you are far less likely to experience it again as frequently or at the same level. |